Positive parenting tips- Why I encourage my child to save money?
Positive parenting tips- Why I encourage my child to save money?
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Money-saving habits at a young age can be
lifelong teaching for your child, which will help them make essential financial
decisions in the future.
When I was a child, my mother restricted my access to
money. In those days, some relatives would offer money to me if they forget to
bring any gift while visiting us. The reason behind it is, I was the youngest
person in the family. In such instances, my mother would behave boldly and say
no.
Today with changing times when the kids have become more
self-dependent, I find it important to teach them the value of money. Not that
I hand over money to her or I encourage others to do so. But, we as parents
have chalked down some house rules for money savings. We have also included our
kid in this plan.
Why inculcating the habit of money-saving in kids is essential?
Certainly, most kids will not value their belongings.
Today the world has been a tough place to survive, we can expect it to become
tougher when our kids will become adults. As we say, what we teach our kids at
an early age remains with them forever. Exactly in the same way, if we
inculcate the habit of saving money in our kids at a young age, the habit will
prove to be a golden rule in the long run.
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Understand the value of money- For
kids, everything we buy, just happens with the swipe of a card. They
don’t see actual money and think anyone swipes a card can buy things. Making
them understand that money is something we need, for buying materials, it will be
helpful.
·
Avoid misuse- When they
know, that things are bought with money that we earn, kids will probably
lessen the misuse of things, such as toys. It has been my personal experience
that the time from when we have started adopting the money-saving habit with my
kid, she has stopped over-buying things. She has started judging things by
whether she needs it or not. Of course, there are instances when she craves for things like toys. But as long as they are kids, that will be there.
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Save for a greater cause- You can
make them understand that there are special moments in life for which we save.
This will give them an idea of fund distribution. For example, we save for our
health, vacations, charity, etc.
·
Implement
future planning- As you teach your kid the importance to save for a
cause, they will also learn how to plan for future expenses or occasions. This will help her to take important investment decisions in
the future.
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Lifelong support- Like any other good
habit, saving money will also help your child in the long run. They will learn
the importance of saving money at a young age and thus implement it throughout
their life.
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Understanding family values- Every
family has a goal and perspective towards life. Savings in one aspect of
learning family values. For example, if tomorrow your child demands a good sum
of money to eat out with her friends, will you allow her? Well, it varies from
person to person. Personally, I will raise my kid in a way where she understands
whether spending a good sum of money with friends at a young age is obvious or
not.
·
Encourage bonding with child- As I
said earlier, kids think money comes from the swipe of a card. Make them
understand that it is the result of your hard work. That way you will grow a
bond between the child and the parents.
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How I encourage my
child to save money
I use a lot of techniques in my everyday life to
encourage money-saving habits in my child. Here are a few tricks that can help
you do the same.
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Piggy-bank helps- Kids love
adventure. For them putting the money in a little space and see it
disappear in the dark is nothing less than an adventure. At first, start with this. You will see that your kid will ask for money to
drop in her piggy bank.
·
Give her responsibility to save for a cause-
When your kid frequently starts asking for things, ask them to save to
buy it later. This will help them understand the worth and the hard work behind
the purchase. My daughter is comparatively decreasing her regular demands.
·
Ask her help at times- We as parents
may not need financial help from our young kids, but sometimes showing that you in need, helps. For example, if you let your child buy his next happy meal from
McDonald from his savings, he will feel independent and self-motivated.
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We discuss the rewards of savings- Planning
really helps. Many times I ask my child what she wants to do with the money she
is saving. Though I get weird answers, at the end of the day we have to admit
they are kids. I also tell her that when her piggy bank is full we will buy her
the favorite thing with the money and also help her with opening a bank account.
However, banks offering minor savings accounts should also be explored. Look out for one of the most trusted brands for banking in India here SBI Savings Account for Minor.
Not every time we need to be strict or boss our kids
around. But a mother understands when and how to inculcate good habits in her
child.
Happy reading mommies, and if you really think reading
this blog has helped you, then please share your views in the blow comment section.
Thank you for writing this artical,as this encourages us to do some good work with our child...
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